Questions You Should and Should Not Ask an Elite Escort
Imagine yourself finally face to face with the beautiful escort you’ve been fantasizing about. Hand shaking, you pour a drink and your mind starts racing, worrying what to say.
You may have burning questions you’re dying to know the answer to, but some of these questions are best left as a mystery. When you’re with an elite London escort, treating her with respect is essential.
To help you make sure you don’t put a foot wrong, we’ve put together a list of questions it is ok to ask and those that are definitely not ok to ask an escort during your meeting.
Our high end London escorts have told us the worst questions that clients ask. We’ll talk you through why you should think twice before asking them and the questions they would prefer to be asked instead.
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Questions You Should Not Ask Escorts
1. “Do you ever date clients?”
This question implies you're hoping for a personal relationship rather than a professional service. While you can create a genuine and real connection with your escort, it’s worth remembering her services aren’t free.
“Every time someone asks that, it makes me feel like they’ve misunderstood the whole arrangement.” - Georgina
Our escorts are adept at providing you with a world-class girlfriend experience, where it really does feel like you’ve known each other for a lifetime. But a GFE is exactly that; an experience. Escorts provide a paid service and are not seeking romance. A question like this ignores that an escort’s work is work - and she’s not necessarily looking for anything more.
If you ask this your escort may feel uncomfortable. They don’t want to cause you offense, but they’re going to have to refuse.
Want to make a booking with Georgina (pictured above)? See her profile here.
To avoid making your escort feel more uncomfortable, read through our list of escort etiquette dos and don’ts for a smooth booking.
2. “What does your partner or family think of your job?”
This one will make the atmosphere awkward. If you ask this, you assume her loved ones disapprove or treat her negatively. It suggests you think her work is shameful or something to hide.
It also invades her personal life. You don’t want to force her to explain or remind her of family drama during your date. She won’t ask you invasive questions about your life or family, so she expects the same in return. It’s not relevant to the service she is providing, so it’s best not to inquire.
“This kind of question can feel super awkward - it’s not something I want to talk about with clients.” - Clarissa
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3. “So when are you going to quit and do something else?”
This question is very presumptive. It implies that escorting is a temporary fallback, not a valid career. For many of our escorts, it can be a lucrative and fulfilling career they actively choose and succeed at.
While some of our girls are part-time escorts, while studying or working, some are committed to their escort role. Asking this question suggests you don’t take their work seriously. And it dismisses the idea that they enjoy being an escort. You could end up making your escort feel undervalued or guarded when you talk to her.
“Why would I leave a job that pays well and lets me choose who I spend time with?” - Syliva
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4. “How many clients do you see per week?”
You may think this seems innocent enough, but it’s quite the opposite. By focusing on numbers, it can feel like you're reducing your escort to statistics rather than a person. It’s implicit that an escort’s worth is tied to experience or novelty. It adds to the stereotype that more clients means an escort is less respectable.
Your escort’s other dates and clients are not relevant to your booking. Details about your escort’s other clients will always be kept confidential. You wouldn’t want her to tell anyone the specifics of your bookings with her. So, don’t ask about anyone else’s.
“You don’t want to picture me with other people, so why ask?” - Tanya
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5. “How much money do you make per booking?”
“Enough to know not to answer that question.” - Claudia
It can always be awkward to ask an escort how much money she makes. Similar to the previous question, it could reveal how many clients she sees, which is not relevant to your booking. How much money an escort makes can depend not just on how many escorts they see but how many hours they work.
If you’re unsure how long to book an escort for, see our blog explaining what each type of booking looks like.
By asking this question about money, you could force your escort to defend or justify their value. Many clients who ask this seem to think escorting must be easy money, ignoring the work and emotional impact it can have. For an escort, their role can be about so much more than just making money, so it’s best to avoid questions like this.
Interested in meeting Claudia? See her profile here to learn more.
Questions You Can Ask Escorts
So now you know what you should not ask an escort, what is appropriate to say? Let’s explore some good ideas for conversation and how you can ask questions that show more respect to your model.
1. “Are there any activities or boundaries you prefer to avoid?”
This can be good to establish comfort and limits during your encounter. This helps to avoid awkward misunderstandings during the session and means you're both on the same page about the services she will and will not provide.
2. “What do you love about being an escort?”
If you want to talk about her escort career, this is how you keep the conversation light-hearted and positive. It’s asking about her in a way that does not feel intrusive.
3. “What’s your favourite cuisine / travel destination / hobby?”
Talking about her interests can help to reveal more about your escort’s personality. It’ll help you find things you have in common and build more of a connection, helping your GFE date feel even more real.
Tips For Your Escort Date:
- Don’t ask invasive or judgmental questions about her personal life, finances, or future plans.
- Avoid checking your phone unless absolutely necessary. If you’re glued to your screen, it sends the message you’re not present, which kills the mood instantly.
- Don’t treat the evening like a checklist. The experience isn’t just about ticking off activities.
- Bring a small gift or thoughtful touch. You don’t need diamonds. A single rose, her favourite chocolate, or even just remembering a detail from her profile can set a playful, personal tone.
If you want some more tips to impress your high class London escort, see our in-depth guide for more details. And see our guide to the kinds of gifts you can give your elite escort.
Arrange Your Elite Escort Date Now
When you know the etiquette to follow, how to behave and what to say, it makes escort bookings run a lot smoother.
When you know what to avoid and what to steer the conversation towards, you can act a lot more confident on your date. You can learn more about her and find shared passions over a drink, with plenty of flirtation and feel your attraction growing.
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